Crossword Puzzles and Lessons Learned
Editorial Updated 3 Dec 2006, Crossword Puzzles and Lessons Learned
I like to do crossword puzzles and Word Jumbles as a diversionary “escapism” from the daily pressures of life. Marilyn cuts out the LA Times crossword puzzle and the Jumble each day and we save them. I usually do about 4 a week.
Well, I have learned two valuable lessons about life, via my doing of cross word puzzles.
1. Perseverance,
2. Blocking Paradigms.
Frequently, I work away at a puzzle as I go to bed for 15 minutes or so while I wait to fall asleep. And I keep at it night-by-night (if a tough one). And by staying with it, I get breakthrough words and eventually get the whole puzzle done—Even when I felt I couldn’t do it. PERSEVERANCE is a needed quality for leaders. Stay with it. As William Carey said, “I can plod!” Plodding might be at the heart of perseverance.
Many a time I am stumped on a cross-word puzzle there is a major reason for it. I have some wrong word in there, which prevents me from seeing other possible words. And that is the way in life too. As leaders we may have some wrong paradigms, which prevent us from seeing “breakthrough” concepts that God wants to give. We have to have the “BLOCKING PARADIGMS” removed. And the problem is that we assume these “blocking paradigms” are true and hence have no idea they are wrong. And thus the need for “paradigm shifts—God’s necessary breakthroughs” for leaders. Sometimes we sense a need for some new paradigm shift. Many times it is a serendipitous thing that happens. Need any new “paradigm shifts?” If you are stalled, maybe you do. You may need God to be your Johari Window.
Learning From Life,
Bobby Clinton

December 11th, 2006 at 4:20 am
I recently taught a short series on the various “blocking” paradigms that Jesus confronted in the life of Peter. Like Paul, we all need God to cause the scales to fall from our eyes. Thanks for the MMM!
December 12th, 2006 at 4:46 pm
Bobby,
Thanks again for the reminder on perseverance. I was shoveling snow off my driveway one day and it seemed like it would never end. I wanted to quit so badly since my back was hurting. But, I knew that if I did the snow would continue to collect until my car would get stuck in the garage. So, I persevered, even through my backpain. It was tough in the beginning, but the result was a success - I could drive my car out from the house. Pain should never be a substitute for perseverance.
God bless Bobby.
Art
January 8th, 2007 at 9:11 am
Hi Bobby,
I am not even sure if you remember me, Brian pointed me to your site. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing about the puzzle thing, I thought this oddity wasn’t shared by many others. I do the same thing, word puzzles before I switch of the light, and it really gets to me when I do not seem to be able to finish them especially as I take more evenings for a puzzle. I just never thought there could be leadership principles in doing word puzzles!
Geer Stokes-Kramer